I’d reply:
Thanks. The SM-X210 / Galaxy Tab A9+ should normally be 64-bit capable, and Android 16 is also not too old. Diarium does not intentionally block this device model.
This message is shown by Google Play, so it likely depends on what the LineageOS installation reports to Google Play, for example supported CPU/ABI, Play Protect certification, or the installed Google Play services package. Please check in the Play Store under Settings > About whether the device is “Play Protect certified”, and also make sure the LineageOS/GApps build is 64-bit.
If Google Play marks the device as incompatible, I unfortunately cannot override that from inside Diarium. You can also try opening the Diarium Play Store page in a browser with the same Google account and see if that gives a more specific reason or allows selecting the tablet.